Lala kahle, Nkosi

 
Johannesburg, South Africa. Thur, June 7, 2001
Hundreds of South Africans gathered at the Central Methodist Church in Johannesburg to pay tribute to child Aids activist Nkosi Johnson, who died last Friday.
Gail Johnson, Nkosi's foster mother, said she would continue her work with Aids orphans and HIV-infected children. "Nkosi leaves a legend of acceptance, tolerance and care for the HIV infected and the Aids orphans. I'm not saying goodbye to him because he is still here," she told reporters after the service.
Asked what she would remember most about the 12-year-old, she replied with a smile: "That he always forgot to fill up the cat food... and he told the (most terrible) jokes because he always forgot the punchline".
Nkosi's biological grandmother Ruth Khumalo accompanied by other family members also attended the service. She said the differences between the foster and biological families over the funeral arrangements had been sorted out.
The two families sat in a row at the front of the church facing the congregation. A picture of Nkosi, dressed in a tuxedo and red bow tie, was pasted onto pedestals inside and outside the church. Banners on the walls of the church said: "Lala kahle Xolani Nkosi Johnson. Let the love and courage of Xolani fill your heart with determination to care for the infected and orphaned children in our land".
At the end of the sermon Johnson and Khumalo lit candles in memory of Nkosi while the song "Time to say goodbye" by Sarah Brightman and Andrea Bocelli was played in the background. They then started lighting candles handed out earlier to each person in the church.
Also attending the memorial was the Johannesburg reflexologist who claimed that Johnson was abusing Nkosi shortly before his death. Hilda Khoza told reporters that the Sowetan newspaper had misinterpreted her comments. She promised to take the issue further.
Deputy President Jacob Zuma said in a letter to the family that it was a very sad day. "The death of this young fighter opens up a challenge to all of us to examine the contribution we can make to reduce the impact of Aids in our lives and those around us."
Nkosi died at his foster mother's house in Melville. He was South Africa's longest surviving Aids victim. He attracted international attention when he asked, in front of thousands of delegates at the 13th International Aids Conference held in Durban last year, that AZT be given to pregnant HIV-positive mothers.
Another memorial service will today be held for him in Daveyton where his biological family stays. He will be buried from the Central Methodist Church on Saturday.